We recently happened upon an article titled “How To Attract More Love Into Your Life” by Helena Hart and found it to be raw, honest, and profound advice for anyone, whether you are in a relationship or looking for one. Here’s a brief excerpt:
The other day I heard someone say, “Complaining makes you a Crap Magnet.” I started thinking about how true that is – and how we can quickly turn that around and become a “Love Magnet,” since what you focus on GROWS.
I think of complaining as “thinking small” and I know how easy it can be to fall into that place! You may be at a place where you’re feeling stuck, where you feel like there isn’t anything that can be done to attract more love into your life. If you’re anything like I was, you may have an “armor” around you that makes you feel that you can’t be loved, and that there must be something wrong with you.
I believe that our life’s purpose is to love and be loved, and everyone has the ability within them to love and be loved. We may get hurt along the way and become afraid, jealous, or “grasping.” Sometimes our perception is that we’re not lovable or that we don’t know how to love or allow ourselves to be loved, and we can start to experience the world through the lens of those belief systems.
The good news is, you CAN shift your mind and your experience, and tremendous healing can happen quickly once you’re willing to allow it to happen.